EYE ON ASTROLOGY: UNDERSTANDING KUJA DOSHA AND UNBREAKING A STUCK EGO
Mars is afraid in relationship compatibility as a result of if our associate will get too caught up of their ego or does it their method or is just too egocentric or rigid, then Venus is overpowered. The key of the connection is concord and dedication and when Mars will get caught, nothing appears to maneuver it. Males are dominated by Mars and due to this fact by nature are set of their methods and ego and wish to combat with one other lady to seek out out who is true.
The key with Kuja Dosha or an excessive amount of ego within the relationship is to help your associate and be a hero and suppose that they’re getting their method. As a substitute of blaming your associate and preventing, use your creativity to get what you want. As a substitute of ordering your partner to take out the trash or clear, make them a hero. “I'm not feeling nicely in the present day. Might you assist me with my errands or with in the present day's dishes? Ask your man a query and ask him a query. Might you discover time to choose up the youngsters in the present day so I could make you this massive dinner? Mars needs to be a hero, so make your associate a hero and you may soften some kuja dosa.
Mars astrology in marriage charts doesn’t happen as usually as your village priest or native astrologer would love you to suppose it’d. There are all types of cancellations, however it’s particularly tough within the rising indicators of Gemini and Virgo or the rising indicators of Navamsha, since Mars and Mercury are bitter enemies. Particularly, Kuja dosha or issues with married life happen when Mars is within the following homes within the natal chart or D-9 Navamsha chart:
When Mars is extra troubled and Kuja dosha isn’t cancelled, the next issues might come up from Mars within the following homes:
2nd home: Household life is affected; monetary issues can have an effect on married life; sexual power could be misused; tendency to harsh speech and cursing and communication issues and misunderstandings between {couples}.
4th home: Troubled childhood and damaged relationship with mom or early separation can have an effect on marriage and household life can result in aggression, disruption of household life, frequent fights.
Home 7: Fights and quarrels with companions; aggressive sexual power could be problematic; companions could be egocentric or indignant, rude or thoughtless; early intimacy and sexual ardour are mistaken for love and result in early marital disharmony.
home 8a : It may well result in being a sufferer and a victimizer, damaged relationships; issues with scandals; reproductive issues that may result in fights; issues with joint funding. Thought to carry premature loss of life of partner, accidents, issues with in-laws if severely troubled.
Home 12: It may well alter sexual relations with companions; extreme spending can result in fights; create distrust in marriage and incapacity to sacrifice in marriage as a result of private ego might dismiss the necessity for sacrifice and dedication; Typically the battle between celibacy and intimacy can result in marital strife.
Individuals are fast to see Kuja dosha and declare it in a chart, however there are various modifications of this drawback:
1) First, it's normally extra of an issue earlier than 28, when Mars matures, so older {couples} with this drawback of their charts might have discovered their classes.
2) If each companions have Kuja dosha, it’s believed that the aggression of 1 is not going to hurt the opposite associate, as there can be a “match competitors” and the flexibility to take action in a free and preventing method.
This isn’t actually an answer as marriage is all about Venus and concord however some {couples} like the fireplace of preventing and the last word ardour that may come and typically this may work for some time however in the long run, Venus and the feminine can be drained and out of their dharma and pure ingredient and this can weigh on the connection. The fact of this case is past the rule of simplicity that two folks with Kuja dosha can get married.
Kuja dosha can be discovered in lots of charts as a result of there’s such a large risk that it might probably occur and particularly as a result of the D-9 chart and Navamsha should be included within the evaluation.
Methods to beat Kuja Dosha
1) Get married after 28 and exit lots and grow to be conscious of how your Martian ego exhibits up and the character that controls or fights nature.
2) Discover a associate with whom you possibly can combat in a enjoyable loving method with ardour the place the Martian power will increase the eagerness and you may go additional.
3) Do Hanuman Chalisa usually to treatment this case.
4) Take part in skilled recommendation.
5) Study to say sure to your associate and commit and be keen to let go of your have to have it your method. Concentrate on your want to regulate, to dominate. Discover methods to handle your anger.
6) Heal your relationship from childhood and your mom (Mars on the 2nd and 4th)
7) Keep away from sizzling and spicy meals and calm pitta dosha in order that sexual assaults and fights could be dealt with.
8) Learn to handle funds collectively and equitably (Mars on the eighth and twelfth) by getting monetary recommendation and gaining confidence. Create separate funds and checking accounts so there are not any fights on this space, and plan your joint funds rigorously so there are not any laborious emotions.
Since Kuja dosha is so widespread, one actually has to study to navigate it and concentrate on one's personal points round ego and lack of dedication to beat it. The fast repair of getting a Vedic ceremony may fit briefly, however with out being conscious of how your Martian power exhibits in a relationship, it is not going to be resolved by working to alter your patterns. He's like Invoice Murray within the film Day of the groundhog. He has to grow to be conscious of all of the life time messes and altering patterns to win the woman in the long run.
Particular due to my professors Komilla Sutton and Hart De Fouw and Robert Svoboda for his or her insights on a few of these subjects.
